I fucking love the idea of matchy matchy dressing with my boyfriend. In fact it's something I try to trick him into doing regularly, but he's yet to fall for it and was rather annoyed with me when we left his house last weekend in almost matching scarves. I, conversely, punched the air with glee.
Now don't get me wrong, I don't want us to look like creepy twins, or like that couple who wear one red one green Converse each that
Alexander Fury keeps seeing in Tesco, but there's something fun and ridiculous about being part of a secret gang of sorts who wear the same clothes and do the same shit. I love secret gangs: I used to wish when I didn't have anyone to ride my bike with that I could get a whole gang of friends and dress them up in leather jackets, then we'd ride around and maybe find a secret island like in
Swallows and Amazons, and hang out there for the afternoon. Come on! Who doesn't want a secret gang? Handshakes and haircuts, secret words and songs, imagine it!
If you think about it being in a relationship with someone is a bit like being in a secret gang as long as you do it right. The best things about secret gangs are how everything cool you do is exclusive and under wraps. So if you and your boyfriend call each other pet names, or have private jokes, it becomes 100000000% less cool and fun when you say them in front of people. This goes double for dressing up. While Halloween is the one day of the year this advice/rule/whatever can take a hike, I want you first to look at Dough Reinhardt's face and think twice before you dress as the tooth fairy and a... ummm.... depressed molar?
I find that most people and pets find being dressed up like an amusing toy incredibly humiliating no matter how much I'm, er I mean,
you're enjoying it which is a damned shame. Although, duh, your boyfriend isn't a toy some days it would really be a lot better if he just let you do his mascara, draw a glitter lightning bolt on his face, and squeeze into some co-ordinating platforms, because then the two of you could act out some sweet as fuck
Bay City Rollers videos. Or you could wear matching suits and pretend to be city boys. Or put on wigs and pretend to be Lady Gaga and her reflection. The possibilities are ENDLESS.
Just remember the secret gang's rule: keep it indoors, because then no-one can laugh at you.
Pictures from Fuck Yeah Cute, I Love Pugs, and Jezebel
1. They're your boyfriend not mine.
No matter how sweet, caring, hot, amazing in bed, this person is, they aren't doing any of this stuff to me. I don't want them to do it to me, and I'm glad they're doing all this supposedly great stuff to you, no, really I am, but it impacts so marginally on my life that to have to hear about, read about it, and get twittered at about it, all the freaking time is about as useful to me as you telling me about how relieved you after your first piss of the day.
2. All this talking about them is eating into my valuable time.
And your valuable time, and dare I say it? our valuable time. We could be talking about how shitty Lady Gaga's dancing is when compared with that of Beysus or why everything on the internet comes from 4chan. We could be having an intelligent discussion on the link between yamambas and Essex girls. We could teaching me to burp the alphabet. We could NOT be talking about how psyched you were when Tarquin ran you a bath after work.
3. I don't know them.
When a friend goes out with a mutual friend there is a slightly more vested interest, I liked both of you enough to be friends with you in the first place evidently. But if I've only ever met him with you then I don't have a clue what he's like. Maybe in time we'll get to be best buds, sharing a cup of cocoa in the kitchen before bed. It's unlikely, he wants to stick his dick in you, I don't: we are very different people.
4. Are they really that amazing?
Really? Really really? If you wrote down their qualities objectively on paper would they be more amazing than Cory Doctorow? I mean seriously, think about it, he gave you a chocolate bar cos he called you a mean name when he was angry, really, it's kind of douchey.
5. Unless it's exciting, funny, or gross, I just don't care.
Boyfriend fell over and farted on you? Great! You both dodged a speeding motorbike that nearly mowed you down? Amazing! He fell over while naked and arguing with you? Jackpot! Just think of the rule "Tits or GTFO" and you'll see my conversation criteria.
Please don't go away thinking I hate your other halves, or you, I really don't. Your relationship is probably super exciting... to you and them. I'm sure that they make you see stars and fireworks when you kiss not pencils or empty ketchup bottles because, yeah, I get it, you're in love. But don't blame me if when I ask you how your weekend was and you reply with "Well, Rory Boring and I..." I high-tail it out of your presence.
Pictures from these three brilliant tumblrs: Vogue Weekend, Living Loving Maid, and Super Woodbinda.
Your Boyfriend Is (Sadly) Not A Toy
I fucking love the idea of matchy matchy dressing with my boyfriend. In fact it's something I try to trick him into doing regularly, but he's yet to fall for it and was rather annoyed with me when we left his house last weekend in almost matching scarves. I, conversely, punched the air with glee. Now don't get me wrong, I don't want us to look like creepy twins, or like that couple who wear one red one green Converse each that Alexander Fury keeps seeing in Tesco, but there's something fun and ridiculous about being part of a secret gang of sorts who wear the same clothes and do the same shit. I love secret gangs: I used to wish when I didn't have anyone to ride my bike with that I could get a whole gang of friends and dress them up in leather jackets, then we'd ride around and maybe find a secret island like in Swallows and Amazons, and hang out there for the afternoon. Come on! Who doesn't want a secret gang? Handshakes and haircuts, secret words and songs, imagine it!